  
      
          The Marriage Contract
    
        Goals 
          of this Chapter  
        
        
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Definition 
              of some important fiqh terms including arkaan, shuroot, 
              sahih, baatil and faasid.   
           
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The 
              different conditions and/or prerequisites needed for a marriage 
              contract to be considered valid, enforceable and binding.  
               
           
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In 
              particular, the importance of the guardian (wali), witnesses 
              (shuhood) and the dowry (mahr).   
           
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General 
              concepts concerning conditions or stipulations in any type of contract 
              and the ruling regarding adding such stipulations into a marriage 
              contract in particular.   
           
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The 
              ramifications and effect on the contract when certain conditions 
              are not properly met.   
           
         
        Introduction 
            
            
        Marriage 
          in Islam is a contract.  Thus, as in any contract in Islam, there 
          are elements which are considered essential to its existence, called 
          arkaan, the possibility of stipulations of different kinds, 
          legal effects of the contract, etc.    Each of these should 
          be understood properly in order to ensure that the marriage has been 
          performed in the proper manner and the rightful effects of the marriage 
          are granted to each of the participating partners.   
        Definition 
          of Rukn and Shart  
           
        Rukn 
          (plural: arkaan) can be translated as "pillar" and 
          is an essential part of the legal reality of something.   Without 
          it, that legal reality does not exist.   
        Shart 
          (plural: shuroot) can be translated as "prerequisite" 
          or "condition" is a requirement for the legal reality/validity 
          of something but 1) is external to it and/or 2) does not completely 
          void the legal reality if not found.   
        Az-Zuhaili 
          writes:   
        "According 
          to the Hanafis, a rukn is something upon which the existence 
          of something else is dependent, however it is also part of that thing 
          which is dependent on it.  A shart for them is a prerequisite 
          upon which the existence of something else depends but it does not form 
          a part of that other thing. 
           
          For the majority (of the scholars), a rukn is the thing upon 
          which something and its existence rests, it cannot be in reality without 
          it or it is something which is a must.  Their famous expression 
          is "It is a thing by which the shari'a reality of a thing 
          will not exist except with it."  That is the case regardless 
          of whether it be an actual part of the thing or something separate from 
          it.  A shart for them is something upon which another 
          thing is dependent but which does not form part of it."  (Wahbah 
          Az-Zuhaili, Al-Fiqh Al-Islami wa Adillatuhu (Berut: Dar Al-Fikr, 
          1985) vol. 7 p. 36)   
        The 
          following example will demonstrate the different between the Hanafi 
          approach and that of the rest of the schools of thought.  The actual 
          existence of the girl that is to be wed is something external to the 
          process of the marriage contract.   Therefore, since it is external, 
          the Hanafis would not call it a rukn although, obviously, no 
          marriage would actually take place without her existence.   This 
          makes it a shart in their terminology.  In the other schools 
          of thought, the fact that no marriage can occur without the existence 
          of the girl getting married is sufficient to call her existence a rukn 
          of the marriage contract even though her existence is external to the 
          actual contract process itself.   
        The 
          Arkaan of a Marriage Contract  
           
        All 
          the scholars agree that "offer and acceptance" (Al-Ijaab 
          wa al-qubool) is among the arkaan of a marriage.  
          There is a difference of opinion concerning the other arkaan 
          as discussed below:   
        The 
          Arkaan of a Marriage According to the Hanafis 
            
        Offer 
          and acceptance are the only arkaan of the marriage contract 
          in Hanafi fiqh due to their definition of rukn as explained 
          above.   Furthermore, in Hanafi fiqh, the offer/acceptance can 
          begin from either party.   
        The 
          Arkaan of a Marriage According to the Jamhoor (Majority 
          of Scholars)  
           
        1. 
          Offer and acceptance are among the arkaan.  For 
          most of these scholars, the offer must be from the woman's side and 
          the acceptance from the man.   
        2. 
          The two parties to the contract: the prospective husband and 
          the guardian of the woman.   
        Some 
          also count the following among the arkaan, although the majority 
          of these scholars count them among the shuroot:  
           
        
        The 
          Wording of the Contract  
           
        There 
          are a variety of opinions as to exactly which phrases are valid in the 
          transaction of the marriage contract.  Of all these opinions, it 
          seems clear that the best of them is that any wording that makes the 
          intent of the contract clear to all involved should be considered a 
          valid marriage, while the best format would be that actually used by 
          the Prophet (sas) and his companions.  Also, it is considered best 
          if the contract is executed in spoken form.  However, due to need 
          or necessity, it may be done through writing or signing.  
           
        Among 
          the different possible phraseology, the very clear terms such as "I 
          marry you" as accepted by all.  Anything which indicates a 
          temporary nature of the contract is forbidden.  In others there 
          is some difference of opinion such as "I present to you", 
          "I give to you", "I sell to you", etc.  
           
        The 
          Hanafi and Maliki Approach  
           
        This 
          opinion says that any term which is clear by itself or by the context 
          and in this way implies marriage would be considered valid if the witnesses 
          and the parties understand it as such.  This supported by the following 
          segment of along verse in which Allah mentions all of the categories 
          of women which are halal for the Prophet (sas):   
        {...Wa 
          imra'atan in wahabat nafsahaa lin Nabiy in araada an-nabiy an yastankihahaa 
          khaalistan laka min duni al-mu'mineen...} 
          {...and a woman who gives herself to the Prophet if the 
          Prophet wishes to marry her - exclusively for you and not the [rest 
          of the] believers...}  Al-Ahzaab:50  
           
        It 
          is also reported that the Prophet (sas) himself used the following expression 
          in performing a marriage:   
        "Qad 
          mallaktukahaa bima ma'aka min al-qur'an." 
          "I have put her in your possession for the Qur'an which 
          you possess."  Al-Bukhari   
        The 
          Hanbali and Shafi'iy Approach 
            
        This 
          opinion says that the marriage is not proper unless it uses forms of 
          the following words which are found in the Qur'an and hadith:  
          nikah or zawaaj.   Their response to the above 
          evdience is that since the verse clearly applied to something given 
          specifically to the Prophet (sas) it is not applicable here and that 
          the actual words of the hadith are from the narrator who may not have 
          transmitted it exactly.   Bottom line:  Marriage is a contract 
          and, like any other contract if the intention and goal of the contract 
          is clear to all parties, there need not be any additional restrictions 
          on the actual words used.  On the other hand, due to the seriousness 
          of this contract, there is no hardship in sticking to the original words 
          used most commonly by the Prophet (sas) and his companions.  
           
        Does 
          it Have to be in Arabic?   
        According 
          to the majority of the scholars, it is not necessary for the marriage 
          contract to be transacted in Arabic, even for those who have the ability 
          to speak Arabic.  Those in the Hanbali school who required the 
          use of forms of the words nikah or zawaaj also required 
          that the contract be transacted in Arabic for this reason.  
           
        The 
          Different Types of Shuroot (Conditions or Prerequisites) 
             
        At 
          this point, we need to learn the definition of some general terms in 
          Islamic fiqh which come up in many subject areas, including 
          the one at hand.   
        Sahih 
          (Sound).  A 
          contract which fulfills all of the arkaan and the shuroot 
          and has full effect in the law.    
        Baatil 
          (Void).  A 
          contract that has failed to fulfill specific arkaan or vital 
          shuroot.  A contract which is baatil is the opposite 
          of one which is sahih and has no legal effect at all.  
          If a marriage contract is found to be void, even if it is only discovered 
          after consummation, the legal condition will be as if it never happened 
          at all.  The lineage of the father will not be established and 
          there is no waiting period ('iddah) upon the woman.  An 
          example of this would be if a man married a woman who was married to 
          someone else at the time.    
        Faasid 
          (Defective).  
          This is a contract which fails to 
          fulfill some of the shuroot, but not the arkaan.  
          For non-Hanafis, faasid and baatil have the same meaning.  
          In Hanafi fiqh, a marriage which was faasid has some legal 
          ramifications, especially if it was consummated.    
        With 
          respect to marriage, there are four different kinds of conditions which 
          must be met:   
         
          
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Conditions 
                Required for Initiating the Contract (shuroot 
                al-in'iqaad). 
                  These are the conditions that must be present with respect 
                to the arkaan or fundamentals of the marriage contract. 
                   
             
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Conditions 
                Required for the Soundness of the Contract (shuroot 
                as-sihha).   These 
                are conditions which must be fulfilled in order for the marriage 
                to have its proper legal effect.  If these conditions are 
                not met, the contract is "defective" (faasid), 
                according to Hanafi fiqh, "void" (baatil) 
                according to the others.    
             
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Conditions 
                Required for the Execution of the Contract (shuroot 
                an-nifaadh).   
                These are conditions which 
                must be met for the marriage to have actual practical effect.  
                If these conditions are not met, then the marriage is "suspended" 
                (mauqoof) according to Hanafi and Maliki fiqh. 
                  For example, a minor girl until she reaches puberty.  
                  
             
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Conditions 
                Required for Making the Marriage Binding (shuroot 
                al-luzoom).   
                If these conditions are not 
                met, then the marriage is non-binding meaning that either of the 
                two parties or others may have the right to anull the marriage. 
                  If they accept the marriage with such shortcomings, it 
                becomes binding.    
             
           
         
        First:  
          Shuroot Required for Initiating the Contract  
            
        In 
          this category, there are conditions concerning the two who are getting 
          married as well as the form in which the contract takes place. 
            
        Concerning 
          the Two Getting Married   
        The 
          two people must meet the qualification of legal competence, i.e, they 
          must be adult and sane.  If they are not, the marriage will be 
          invalid.   
        Secondly, 
          the woman cannot be from those categories of women that are forbidden 
          for a man to marry.  For example, suppose a man married a woman 
          and later discovered that they had been breastfed by the same woman.  
          In this case, it is as if the marriage never took place because those 
          two were not qualified or allowed to marry each other and the marriage 
          becomes null and void.   
        Concerning 
          the Contract   
        There 
          is near complete agreement on the following conditions relating to the 
          transaction of the marriage contract:   
         
          
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The 
                offer and acceptance must be done in one sitting.  In general, 
                this means that the response must be immediate.  Exactly 
                what is considered a "sitting" depends on custom and 
                related factors.    
             
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The 
                acceptance must correspond to what is being offered.  If 
                the guardian says:   "I marry you to Khadijah", 
                a response of "I accept Fatimah as my wife" would not 
                constitute a valid contract.  An exception to this is if 
                the wali mentions a specific dowry amount and the groom 
                responds with a higher amount.  It is regarded that there 
                is no reason for dispute since it is assumed that a higher dowry 
                will be acceptable.    
             
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The 
                wali cannot rescind the offer.  Unlike transactions 
                of selling, neither party can say "I have changed my mind" 
                once they have uttered the offer/acceptance.  It is immediately 
                binding.  In a sale, they both continue to have the option 
                to change their mind until the "sitting" is over and 
                they part.    
             
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The 
                marriage must be effective immediately.  If the wali 
                says "I will marry her to you after one month", there 
                is not marriage and the two remain unmarried.    
             
           
         
        Note 
          that the custom of saying "I accept" three times common in 
          some Muslim cultures has no legal significance.  Once the first 
          "I accept" has been uttered, everything after that is meaningless 
          - whether positive or negative.   
        Adding 
          Stipulations to the Marriage Contract  
           
        This 
          is where one party states a stipulation binding on the other party for 
          specific reasons or goals.  The offer/acceptance are tied to this 
          stipulation by mention.   There is a difference of opinion among 
          the scholars concerning the validity of conditions of this nature. 
            
        Conditions 
          of contracts are two types:  1) those imposed directly by the shari'a 
          and 2) those drawn up by one or more of the parties.  When any 
          contract is entered into, the first type of conditions are covered automatically 
          even if they are not stated in the contract.   
        Understood 
          Conditions Based on what is Customary  
           
        It 
          is a general principle in fiqh that customs can take the status 
          of law.   It becomes understood that people are going to behave 
          in a certain fashion.   Since that is understood, one party has 
          the right to ask it of the other even if it is not stated in the contract.  
          In the area of marriage, there are some stipulations that are known 
          by custom.  These do not have to be mentioned in the contract to 
          be considered binding.  However, there are some strict conditions 
          that must be met before a customary act is considered something equivalent 
          to a legal stipulation.   These conditions are as follows: 
            
         
          
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The 
                customary practice cannot contravene or contradict anything expressly 
                laid down by the shari'a.  For example, it is custom 
                in some parts of the world for the woman to pay dowry to the man.  
                In other parts, it is customary to prepare two or three times 
                amount of food that the guests could possibly eat at the walima 
                (wedding feast).  Neither party has the right to demand of 
                the other the fulfillment of such customs.    
             
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The 
                customary act must be common, well-known and universal and not 
                something practiced only by some portions of the population.  
                  
             
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The 
                custom must have been in existence and known before the marriage 
                contract took place.    
             
           
         
        Other 
          conditions Laid Down by the Two Parties  
           
        Any 
          condition which contradicts, compromises or nullifies the main goals 
          and purposes of the marriage contract itself are rejected and, even 
          if stated, are of no legal consequence.  For example conditions 
          which state that the woman receives no dowry or that he does not have 
          to support her or that they will not consummate the marriage are all 
          null and void and of no effect whatsoever.   
        Such 
          conditions must be stipulated and agreed upon at or before the time 
          of the offer/acceptance.  Even those scholars who accept such stipulations 
          do not accept them if they are made after the offer/acceptance. 
            
        Sound 
          and Acceptable Stipulations  
           
        There 
          are two types of sound and acceptable stipulations:   
         
          
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Those 
                embodied in the contract even if they are not stated. This includes 
                conditions known from the shari'a as well as those known 
                from custom as discussed previously.  The Prophet (sas) said: 
                 
                "Ahaqqu maa aufaitum min ash-shurooti maa istahlaltum 
                bihi al-furooj." 
                "The conditions which you have the most duty 
                to fulfill are those by which you have made marital relations 
                lawful."  Bukhari & Muslim 
                 
                Many scholars understand this hadith to be referring to these 
                kinds of conditions only, that is, those that are covered by the 
                shari'a in the first place.   This is the view of 
                the shafi'i school.  They do no allow any additional 
                stipulations to be added to the marriage contract.  
                 
             
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Those 
                conditions not covered by the essential nature of the contract 
                but which are agreed upon by the contracting parties.  These 
                are those stipulations that do not contradict the general goals 
                of the contract, do not bring harm to anyone and which apply to 
                things which are permissible and within the right of the person 
                to agree - that is something that does not go against the shari'a.  
                They are laid out in the beginning to avoid any conflict or hardship 
                in the future.    
             
           
         
        In 
          General, Muslims Must Fulfill Their Agreements  
           
        Generally 
          speaking, Muslims must comply with any agreements that they make.  
          Allah said about the believers:   
        {...Wa 
          al-moofoona fi 'ahdihim idhaa 'aahadoo...} 
          {...And those who fulfill their pacts when they make one...}  
          Al-Baqara:177   
        {Yaa 
          ayyuhaa alladhina aamanoo aufoo bi al-'uqood...} 
          {O you who believe fulfill your contracts...} Al-Ma'idah:1 
            
        The 
          Prophet (sas) said:   
        "Al-muslimoona 
          'alaa shurootihim." 
          "Muslims are bound by their stipulations."  
          Abu Daud & Al-Hakim (sahih)   
        During 
          the time of Umar ibn Al-Khattab, a man married a woman upon the condition 
          that he would not move her from his house.  The time came when 
          he wanted to move her.   They took their dispute to Umar and he 
          said:  "She has the right to her stipulation."  
          The man said, "In that case, they will certainly end the marriage."  
          He said, "The rights are broken off due to the stipulations."  
          This was the view of many of the Companions, Followers and scholars 
          including Saad ibn Abi Waqqas, Mu'awiyah, Amr ibn Al-Aas, Shuraih, Umar 
          ibn Abdul Aziz, Tawoos, Al-Awzaa'i and Ishaq.   
        There 
          is another opinion which says that external stipulations - those not 
          covered by the nature of the contract itself - carry no weight and need 
          not be met.  This was the opinion of Abu Hanifa, Ash-Shafi'i, Malik, 
          Az-Zuhri, Qatada, Al-Laith, Ath-Thauri, Ibn Al-Mundhir and has been 
          narrated from Ali.   
        The 
          Proofs of Those Who Say that Such Stipulations are Neither Binding nor 
          Valid   
        "Kullu 
          shartin laisa fiy kitaabi Allahi fahuwa baatil wa in kaana mi'atu shartin." 
          "Every stipultion which is not in the book of Allah 
          is void even if it be one hundred stipulations."  Muslim 
          & Bukhari   
        They 
          also cite the following extension to the hadith mentioned earlier about 
          stipulations:   
        "Al-Muslimoon 
          'alaa shurootihim illa shartin ahalla haraaman au harrama halaalan." 
          "Muslims are bound by their stipulations except for 
          a stipulation which makes the unlawful lawful or makes the lawful unlawful." 
            
        However, 
          this version of the hadith with the added sentence is weak and cannot 
          be used as evidence.  As for the hadith mentioned earlier that 
          "The conditions which you have the most duty to fulfill 
          are those by which you have made marital relations lawful.", 
          they claim that this only applies to the conditions which are essential 
          parts of the nature of the contract itself.   
        Response 
          to Those Arguments   
        The 
          scholars who permit such stipulations in the marriage contract have 
          responded to the above.  As for the hadith "Every 
          stipulations which is not in the book of Allah...", they 
          say that for a woman's wali to make some conditions to her 
          advantage is something permissible and does not go against the Book 
          of Allah.   
        Actually, 
          such conditions do not violate the Book of Allah and do not make anything 
          forbidden permissible, etc.  They simply give the woman the right 
          to annul the marriage if the condition is not satisfied.  
           
        Also, 
          there remains no real meaning to the hadith "The conditions 
          which you have the most duty to fulfill..." if one says 
          that it only applies to conditions that are already in force due to 
          the nature of the contract anyway.   
        The 
          Crux of this Difference of Opinion   
        This 
          discussion boils down to the understanding of two seemingly contradictory 
          hadith:   
        "Every 
          stipulation which is not in the book of Allah is void even if it be 
          one hundred stipulations."  Muslim & Bukhari 
            
        "The 
          conditions which you have the most duty to fulfill are those by which 
          you have made marital relations lawful."  Bukhari 
          & Muslim   
        It 
          seems clear from the second hadith along with the fatwa of Umar mentioned 
          earlier that there is some room for adding stipulations to a marriage 
          contract.  It also seems clear from the first hadith that there 
          are limits on what can be stipulated.   Specifically, any stipulations 
          which go against the basic goals and principles of the marriage contract 
          and not allowed and, if stated, are null and void.  Thus, the only 
          remaining problem is understanding exactly how this principle applies 
          in practical situations.   
        For 
          those scholars who don't accept such external stipulations at all, they 
          have no effect, are not binding, and don't affect the validity of the 
          underlying contract.   For those who accept them, they give the 
          woman the option to annul the marriage upon he request if the condition 
          is violated.  We only mention the woman because the man can divorce 
          at any time with or without a particular cause and so has no need of 
          such an option.  Notice that even in the fatwa of Umar, he didn't 
          require the man to fulfill the condition, rather he allowed that she 
          could end the marriage if she so demanded.   
        Conditions 
          for Which there is Agreement that they are Invalid  
           
        Even 
          those who accept these stipulations all agree that certain conditions 
          are not allowed.  Among them are the following:   
         
          
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Nikaah 
                Ash-Shighaar.  This is where 
                the two dowries are stolen and "exchanged".  For 
                example a man marries his son to another's daughter in "exchange" 
                for the other marrying his daughter to the first one's son.   
                Neither woman receives their dowry.    
             
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Nikaah 
                Al-Mut'a.  Any kind of marriage 
                with a stipulated time limit.    
             
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Nikaah 
                At-Tahleel.  A woman who has 
                been divorced three times and wishes to return to her first husband 
                marries a man on the condition that he divorce her.   If 
                this is discovered or if this is her intention, the first husband 
                still does not become lawful for her in spite of this marriage. 
                   
             
           
         
        Second:  
          Conditions for the Soundness of a Marriage Contract  
           
        There 
          are ten conditions (shuroot) in this category.  Some are 
          agreed upon by virtually all the scholars while others are the subject 
          of some disagreement.   
         
          
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The 
                woman is permissible to the man. 
                i.e., that she is not one of those 
                forbidden to him by relation, nursing or other existing and conflicting 
                marriage.  Some would consider this on of the arkaan 
                (pillars) or one of the conditions for initiating the contract.  
                In any case, this condition must definitely be met.  
                 
             
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The 
                offer and acceptance is of a permanent nature and not temporary. 
                All forms of temporary marriage 
                are forbidden in Islam.  If anything stated in the offer 
                and acceptance indicates a temporary nature, the marriage is not 
                valid.   
             
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Two 
                non-discredited witnesses. 
                There is some difference of opinion 
                on this issue, but in the final analysis, the hadith is clear. 
                Ibn Taimia mentioned four existing opinions on this issue: 
                (1) The marriage must be announced and made public, regardless 
                of whether the contract was actually witnessed or not.  This 
                was the opinion of Malik as well as the scholars of hadith, the 
                Dhaahiris and one opinion reported from Ahamd. 
                (2) It is obligatory to have witnesses, regardless of whether 
                the marriage contract is made public or not.  This was the 
                view of Abu Hanifah, Ash-Shafi'iy and another opinion reported 
                from Ahmad. 
                (3) Both witnesses and a public announcement are necessary.  
                This is a third narration from Ahmad. 
                (4) Either one of the two is necessary.  This is a fourth 
                narration from Ahmad. 
                 
                Ibn Taimia himself felt that the second opinion (only witnesses 
                required) is weak.   He claimed that there was no authentic 
                source for same and that it was not widely known among the Muslims.  
                Instead, what is required is the public pronouncement letting 
                the people know that the parties got married.  He says that 
                if a marriage takes place without witnesses or public announcement 
                it is definitely invalid, if it takes place with witnesses but 
                no announcement it is questionable and if it takes place with 
                both it is definitely valid. 
                 
                The portion of Ibn Taimia's opinion which finds the witnesses 
                NOT a requirement must be rejected, because the hadith on this 
                subject has been found to be sahih: 
                 
                "Laa nikaaha illa bi waliyin wa shaahidaiy 'adlin" 
                "No marriage except with a guardian and two non-discredited 
                witnesses." 
                 
                So the bottom line here is that BOTH the witnesses AND the public 
                announcement are required.  In fact, regarding public announcement, 
                the Maliki school says that if the other parties ask the witnesses 
                to keep it silent that the marriage is not valid and the two are 
                to be separated - PERMANENTLY!  The Hanbali school holds 
                that such a marriage is not invalid although it is disliked to 
                do so.  The witnesses must be two adult and sane Muslim men 
                whose testimony has not been previously discredited.  
                 
              
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Both 
                parties to the contract and the bride have willingly accepted 
                the marriage. 
                The Hanafis say that this is not 
                a condition, but their position is unacceptable and rejected because 
                of ample evidence from the Qur'an and the Sunnah to the contrary. 
                  In the jahiliya, Arabs used to "inherit" 
                (i.e., forcibly marry) their brothers wives if they died.  
                Allah forbid this saying: 
                 
                {Yaa ayyuhaa alladhina aamanoo, 
                laa yahillu lakum an tarithoo an-nisaa'a karhan...} 
                {O, you who believe, it 
                is not lawful for you to inherit women against their will...}  
                An-Nisaa:19 
                 
                There are also two sound and very 
                clear hadith on this matter: 
                 
                "Laa tunkahu al-ayyimu hatta tusta'mara wa laa tunkahu 
                al-bikru hatta tusta'dhana qaaloo yaa rasoolu Allahi kaifa idhinihaa?  
                Qaala: an taskut." 
                "A previously married woman cannot be 
                married until her order is sought and a virgin cannot be married 
                until her premission is sought.  They said:  How does 
                she give permission?  He (sas) said:  If she keeps quiet."  
                Bukhari & Muslim 
                 
                "'An ibn Abbasin anna jaariyatan bikran atat an-nabiyya 
                (sas) fa dhakarat lahu anna abaaha zawwajahaa wa hiya kaariyatun 
                fa khayyarahaa an-nabiyyu (sas)" 
                "From Ibn Abbas that a virgin girl came to the 
                Prophet (sas) and mentioned that her father had married her against 
                her will and so the Prophet (sas) gave her the choice."  
                Abu Daud & others (sahih) 
                 
                Many early scholars  allowed this in only one case:  
                a father or grandfather marrying a girl below the age of puberty 
                without her consent.  According to them, she has no right 
                to refuse the marriage upon becoming mature.  This position 
                is clearly unacceptable and rejected based on the above verse 
                and ahadith.   
             
           
         
        
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              The 
                bride and groom are specifically identified and known. 
                   
             
           
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              Neither 
                of the two contracting parties are in a state of ihraam. 
                   
             
           
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              The 
                marriage must be with a dowry (mahr). 
                It does not have to be exactly specified 
                nor does it have to change hands, but it has to be there.  
                More is coming on this subject later.   
             
           
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              The 
                parties and witnesses are not bound to keep it quiet. 
                It is not allowed to make attempts 
                to keep a marriage a secret.  The universal custom of the 
                Arabs before Islam was to have marriages very publicly where all 
                around became aware of its existence.  Islam confirmed this 
                practice and it is the only acceptable way of marrying.  
                As we have seen, the Maliki school takes this so seriously that 
                they separate the two parties permanently.  Some other scholars 
                said that it was a wrong practice, but didn't necessarily invalidate 
                the marriage.   
             
           
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              No 
                party is on his/her deathbed. 
                The "parties" intended 
                here are the bride and the groom.  This is because of possible 
                injury to the heirs because of another person becoming entitled 
                to inheritance.   
             
           
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              The 
                presence of the guardian or representative (wali) 
                of the woman. 
                The wali is a Muslim man 
                charged with marrying the one under his charge to a man who will 
                be good for her.  There is no disagreement that the first 
                wali is her natural father if he is Muslim and that the 
                last in line is the ruler.   Between those two, there is 
                some disagreement about the order but agreement that they come 
                from the girl's fathers relatives - no one from her mother's side 
                enters into the picture.  The order, according to many is:  
                father, paternal grandfather, son, grandson, full brother, paternal 
                half-brother, paternal uncle.  The wali is an absolute 
                requirement for a marriage, and any marriage done without him 
                is null and void according to the following hadith: 
                 
                "Laa nikaaha illa bi waliyyin wa as-sultaanu waliyyu 
                man laa waliyya lahaa." 
                "No marriage except with a guardian and the ruler 
                is the guardian of she who has no guardian."  Abu 
                Daud & others (sahih) 
                 
                "Ayyumaa imra'atin nakahat bi ghairi idhni waliyyihaa 
                fa nikaahuhaa baatilun fa nikaahuhaa baatilun fa nikaahuhaa baatilun." 
                "If any woman marries without the permission 
                of her guardian, then her marriage is void, then her marriage 
                is void, then her marriage is void."  Abu 
                Daud & others (sahih) 
                 
                It is the job of the wali to marry her to the best 
                possible husband.   He must not be guided by his desires 
                nor by her desires.  If the person is acceptable in both 
                his religion and his character and appropriate to her in some 
                other way discussed by the scholars, then he must facilitate the 
                marriage and not refuse it for his own desires or biases.  
                If the conditions are not right, then he must refuse the marriage, 
                even if both the woman under his charge and the man desire it.  
                This is a grave trust and he must do his best to fulfill it properly 
                and not bring harm to the woman and/or to society.  Allah 
                said: 
                 
                {Yaa ayyuhaa alladhina aamanoo laa 
                takhunoo Allaha wa ar-rasoola wa takhunoo amaanaatikum wa antum 
                ta'lamoon.} 
                {O, you who believe, do 
                not commit treachery against Allah and against the Prophet (sas) 
                nor betray your trusts though you know.}  Al-Anfaal:27 
                 
                What about the case where the wali 
                refuses someone on a non-Islamic basis?   As was stated earlier, 
                it is the job of the wali to act in the best interest 
                of the woman according to the standards established by Islam.  
                If a qualified person asks to marry the woman and he turns him 
                down, then he is not doing his job.  In such a case, the 
                woman can complain to the judge or ruler and have her wali 
                "fired" (removed).  The scholars then differ as 
                to who becomes her new wali, the next male relative in 
                line or the ruler. 
                 
                The wali must be the same religion as the woman.  
                A non-Muslim father cannot be the wali for his Muslim 
                daughter.    
             
           
         
        A 
          Rejected Opinion of the Hanafi School  
           
        In 
          the Hanafi school of thought there is an opinion that the wali 
          is not a requirement for the validity of the marriage.  They even 
          claim to have an argument from Aisha, the one who narrated the hadith: 
           
        "Laa 
          nikaaha illa bi waliyyin wa as-sultaanu waliyyu man laa waliyya lahaa." 
          "No marriage except with a guardian and the ruler is 
          the guardian of she who has no guardian."  Abu 
          Daud & others (sahih) 
         
            
        They 
          say that:  "Aisha married the daughter of her brother, Hafsa 
          bint Abdul Rahman while Abdul Rahman was gone to Sham.  When Abdul 
          Rahman returned he was upset but he did not wish to undo what Aisha 
          had done do he left his daughter with her groom, Al-Mundhir ibn Az-Zuhair." 
          
           
        Other 
          scholars responded to their argument:  It seem from other narrations 
          of the same incident that Aisha simply set up the arrangement but did 
          not actually perform the marriage.  Also, it was Aisha herself 
          who said that "Women cannot perform marriages."  In this 
          way, she did not contradict what she herself narrated from the Prophet 
          (sas). 
          
           
        Being 
          Serious is NOT a Condition for the Soundness of a Marriage Contract 
            
            
        Note 
          that marriage is not a laughing matter and is very serious.  Therefore, 
          the mere words make the marriage happen and intention is not required.  
          Also, as we have seen, there is no khiyaar al-majlis (a choice 
          to back out until the sitting is concluded and the parties part ways) 
          in marriage as there is in sales and other contracts.   The Prophet 
          (sas) said: 
        "Thalaathun 
          jidduhunna jiddun wa hazluhunna jiddun: an-nikaahu wa at-talaaqu wa 
          ar-ruj'atu." 
          "Three things which when serious are serious and when 
          vain are serious:   marriage, divorce and returning (to one's wife 
          after a divorce)."  Ahmad & others (sahih). 
            
        Third:  
          Conditions for the Execution of a Marriage Contract  
           
         
          
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The 
                bride and groom must be legally capable for such a marriage, i.e., 
                sane, conscious, past the age of puberty, etc.  The contract 
                can take place earlier than this, but the execution must wait 
                until the time that they can actually enter into the marriage 
                relationship.    
             
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The 
                wali who performed the marriage was not a more distant 
                wali while a closer one was alive and reachable.  
                For example, if the woman's uncle married her to someone, the 
                marriage would not be valid unless and until the woman's father's 
                consent was verified.  In such a case, the contract could 
                be executed.    
             
           
         
        
         
        Fourth:  
          Conditions for the Marriage Contract to be Binding  
           
        If 
          these conditions are met, neither party has the right to anull the marriage. 
           
        
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              If 
                the marriage of an underage or insane person is done by other 
                than the father or the grandfather, then the father or grandfather 
                has the right to annul it.    
             
           
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              That 
                the husband is socially compatible and qualified for the woman. 
                   
             
           
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              That 
                the dowry is at least equivalent to those similar to her.  
                  
             
           
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              That 
                there is no defect in either spouse.  Included in this category 
                would be the case where the woman was said to be a virgin but 
                is then discovered to be otherwise or where either spouse is not 
                physically capable of marital relations.    
             
           
         
        If, 
          after being married, any of these conditions are not met, both parties 
          (bride and groom) would have the right to annul the marriage.  
          The matter would be taken to a judge or one in authority.  However, 
          this is a right or an option.  Once the parties accept the marriage 
          with the deficiency it contains, they will after that be bound to such 
          a marriage. 
          
           
        Effects 
          of the Various Conditions on the Marriage Contract 
            
        Based 
          on which conditions above are or are not fulfilled, the ruling concerning 
          the validity and legal effect of the marriage contract differs among 
          different schools of fiqh.   In the hanafi school, 
          a contract may fall into one of five categories:   sound and binding, 
          sound and non-binding, suspended, defective and void.  For most 
          of the other scholars, the marriage contract will fall into one of three 
          categories:   sound and binding, sound and non-binding or void. 
            
        The 
          following table describes the effect of failure to meet certain conditions 
          on the legal effect or conclusion concerning the contract itself: 
          
           
         
          
             
               
                Effects 
                  on the Marriage Contract of Failing to Meet Conditions 
                    | 
             
             
              |   Contract 
                  fails to meet the arkaan (pillars) 
                     | 
                Contract 
                  fails to meet the conditions for its Initiation 
                     | 
                Contract 
                  fails to meet the conditions for its Soundness 
                     | 
                Contract 
                  fails to meet the conditions for its Execution 
                     | 
                Contract 
                  fails to meet binding conditions. 
                     | 
                Contract 
                  meets all necessary conditions 
                     | 
             
             
              |  
                   
                     | 
               
                   
                     | 
               
                   
                     | 
               
                   
                     | 
               
                   
                     | 
               
                   
                     | 
             
             
              |   The 
                  contract is null and void. This is actually a moot point since 
                  in reality there WAS no contract if essential components are 
                  missing. 
                     | 
                The 
                  contract is completely void. 
                     | 
                Hanafi 
                  school: the contract is "defective" and hence has 
                  some legal effect.    | 
                In 
                  Hanafi and Maliki fiqh, such a contract is considered "suspended" 
                  or on hold until such conditions are met. 
                     | 
                The 
                  contract is sound but non-binding.  The affected party 
                  has the right to annul the contract. 
                     | 
                Contract 
                  is sound and binding. 
                     | 
             
             
              |   Others:  
                  The contract is null and void.    | 
             
           
         
        Civil 
          Marriages in Countries Which Do Not Apply the Shari'a 
           
           
            
        In 
          the light of what has been discussed, a very important question arises 
          for Muslims living in lands where the Shari'a is not the law 
          of the land.  For Muslims to marry in such situations under the 
          "auspices" of such governments will often involve serious 
          flaws in both the execution and the legal effects of the non-Islamic 
          marriage contract.  For example: 
          
           
        
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              No 
                proper wali.  Many such secular laws may not require 
                the woman to have a wali at all or the one appointed 
                may not be the rightful one in the Shari'a.   
                 
             
           
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              The 
                secular law may not require two witnesses,    
             
           
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              Witnesses 
                may be required but not qualified such as non-Muslim witnesses. 
                   
             
           
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              The 
                marriage establishes various property rights, inheritance rights 
                etc. both during and after the marriage for which Allah sent no 
                authority.  (Avoiding the harm of such issues while living 
                in a non-Islamic society is a much larger issue and involves many 
                things besides marriage.)    
             
           
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              The 
                civil marriage may cause additional marriages by the husband to 
                be a crime punishable by a prison sentence.    
             
           
         
        Because 
          of these and other issues, a secular marriage contract is not sufficient 
          for two Muslims to be considered married Islamically.  In fact, 
          they should be avoided if possible.  In any case, it is the Islamic 
          marriage with its prerequisites and conditions which makes the two married 
          before Allah.  Whether or not a civil marriage should also be undertaken 
          is a case of weighing the harms and benefits involved.    
           
        Regarding 
          these "marriages", the following important points should be 
          noted: 
            
        
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              If 
                such a marriage was entered into by non-Muslims who later became 
                Muslim, they are considered married and there is not need whatsoever 
                to have another marriage contract.    
             
           
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              If 
                they were Muslim but married in a secular manner out of extreme 
                ignorance, it would be best for them to redo the marriage.  
                However, the first marriage could be considered valid and any 
                children resulting from it would be both of their children Islamically. 
                   
             
           
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              If 
                two Muslims marry in such a manner knowingly, for example to circumvent 
                the objections of her wali, then the marriage is null 
                and void and they are committing fornication.    
             
           
         
        Review 
          Questions  
           
        
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              What 
                would be the ruling for the following case:  A man and a 
                woman are married for ten years and then discover that they were 
                breastfed by the same woman.    
             
           
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              What 
                is the ruling concerning a marriage contract in which the woman 
                did not have a wali?   What was the Prophet's (sas) 
                statement about such a marriage (2 hadith).    
             
           
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              Discuss 
                the different opinions concerning whether or not it is allowed 
                to add stipulations to the marriage contract.  For those 
                who allow them, what exactly is their effect and which conditions 
                are allowed?  Which are not allowed?    
             
           
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              Give 
                definitions for the following important fiqh terms:  
                rukn, shart, sahih, faasid and baatil.  
                  
             
           
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              Is 
                it necessary to have witnesses for a marriage contract?  
                What are some of the different opinions on this matter and what 
                is the conclusive evidence from the sunnah?    
             
           
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              What 
                be the ruling on the following case:  A man claims that the 
                marriage contract he just made is not valid because he was only 
                joking when he did it? 
             
           
         
  
        
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