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Safety and Security of nikah.com |
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The Internet has become a convenient, common and acceptable new place to find matches for smart, eligible people. As a result, many individuals are looking for relationships online with people they have not met and know little about. Since NikahSearch.com has good experience in the Muslim matrimonial service, NikahSearch.com make the experience enjoyable and safe, it is still necessary for you to exercise some simple precautions for your safety. The following guidelines below have been put together to help you avoid uncomfortable situations and other problems. Please read carefully and refer to these often! |
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Guard your anonymity
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TAKE YOUR TIME, and ask lots of questions. Don't give out any personal information, including your email address. Use Mingle Mail first, which allows you to send and receive mail without using your real address. Get a good idea of what a person may be like before you give them your email address. You can set up free email accounts through services such as Yahoo, Juno, Hotmail, and others. Never give out your last name, home address, phone number, work information, or any other identifying information in your profile or initial emails. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it. Simply ignore them. |
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Use common sense and be cautious. |
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Don't believe everything you read or are told, whether it is on a profile, in a Mingle Mail, on the message boards, or in the chat room. Watch out for a person who is simply too good to be true. Watch closely for odd behavior, the person may not be what he or she says. Trust yourself and your gut! You're responsible to take all the time you need to make sure a person is honest and trustworthy. If your gut tells you that someone is lying, they very likely are. Dont get hurt by becoming prematurely intimate with someone. Don't be in a rush to fall in love, it will happen when it happens. |
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Ask for a photo |
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A photo will verify a person's profile information and give you a good idea of appearance. If you keep getting excuses, it is probable that he or she is trying to hide something. Our site will scan in a photo for free, so there really aren't any good excuses for not doing it. A person may also send you a photo of somebody else. Be cautious.
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Communicate first through Online |
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When you like someone, first start with communicating online like email or online chat. Do not jump into telephonic conversations or personal meetings prematurely. Take your time and give yourself a chance to know more about the person. You can use nikah.com’s personal messaging system, which is completely anonymous. . In addition to it being important for your safety, it’s simply practical! While searching online, chances are you would be communicating with several potential partners at the same time. In such a scenario, it would be extremely difficult and expensive to keep in touch with them all, over the phone or in person. |
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Use the telephone, a pay phone first |
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When you want to move to the next step, at the right time, a phone call will tell you many things about a persons ability to communicate. Do not give out your phone number to a stranger. Trust takes time to develop. Keep your number anonymous if possible, and use the conversation to find out more about the person to make sure you want to meet. Also call your parents, wali, friend, or a family member. The more people you talk to, the safer and more sure you will be. Only share your phone number when you feel absolutely sure about trusting the person. If you are being pressured to meet, ask to speak to the persons mother first. |
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Meet only when you are ready |
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Many times our excitement about a person makes us impatient.........Be Patient! One of the wonderful things about meeting somebody online is that you can gain so much information about a person before you feel you need to meet. You have NO obligation to meet anyone, ever. Stay away from that people that make you uncomfortable. |
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Warning signs |
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Behavior such as anger, demeaning or disrespectful comments, physically inappropriate comments and behavior, intense frustration or attempts at pressuring or controlling you are obvious warning signs. Stay away from people like this, just ignore them.
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Below are a few more things to watch for: |
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Information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, and other information is inconsistent. |
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Will not speak to you on the phone after establishing an ongoing relationship. |
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Dodges and will not directly answer questions. |
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Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions. |
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In person is quite different from his or her online profile. |
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Will not introduce you to his/her family members. |
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Remember, that while some people do fake their profiles, most others are simply genuine singles looking for a good match - much like your self! |
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Also, if you do find out that a person has embellished his/her profile do contact our customer support service. We at nikah.com have strict rules and policies for misrepresentation on the site. |
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Meeting the first time, never go alone. |
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Take a friend, always! Choose the safest possible environment. Even if you think you know every detail about a person and you trust them implicitly, meet in public where many people are around. Also, tell someone where you are going and when you will be back. Give your date's name and telephone number or any other information to that person. Use your own transportation to get to and from the date. Go somewhere very familiar to you. Be brief, one or two hours is plenty. There is no need for a 5-10 hour date! You will have plenty of time for that later. If your date disagrees with this guideline or any of the guidelines listed here, you shouldn't meet that person. |
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Travelling far to meet someone |
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Use your own transportation always. Don't allow your date to make the arrangements. If the location where you are meeting seems unsafe, awkward, or inappropriate - go back to your hotel. And of course, make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. Take a cell phone with you if you can. |
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How to get out of a jam |
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Just leave. Its always better to be safe than sorry. Your safety is obviously more important than worrying about embarrassment, your behavior, or what another person may think of you. Just leave.
We, at nikah.com want to ensure that you have a wonderful experience. If you feel we have left something out of these guidelines, please let us know!
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nikah.com Customer Care |
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The information what I am looking for is not available in Help Section, what should I do? |
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Please Click here to send your query to our Customer Support Officer, who will respond to your query within 24 hours.
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